I have gotten a couple of responses asking what it my motive?
My motive is to find one or two nice men to get to know. Unfortunately with posting ads you keep getting the ones that really piss you off just because they are lonely and miserable. Wake Up Guys! If your lonely and miserable this Cancer Woman can feel that in you and I do not want clingy and needy men.
If I am running an ad and the same guy responds to it three times with “ARE YOU REAL” or “I AM NOT JOINING A WEBSITE” what this tells me is this guy has been looking for a long time and has pretty much been ruined from all the bull and spam he has received.
If you can’t take the time to write a response that corresponds to the ad you are responding to then you most likely aren’t going to get a good response in return.
I don’t think these men realize that when you post an ad you get just as much spam also. I am always getting responses that are fake and asking me to go here or there. I am also not throwing a tizzy fit and emailing every response I get and telling them I am not going to a dating site.
I hate running ads but responding to posted ads is a lot worse and I get a lot more spam so my only choice is to run my own.
At this point in my life I am not ready to give up and be single just because so many others are miserable and try to bring me down. I am a Cancer girl and I don’t give up.